Real Housewife Tamra Judge responds to her daughter’s abuse accusations just as she was ending her vacation in Aruba. The reality star and husband, Eddie, took the opportunity to also renews their vows.  


Here is what happened:

On Monday, as tabloids were reporting Tamra Judge was enjoying the exotic destination and was renewing her wedding vows, her estranged daughter Sidney Barney decided to post a message on Facebook about the real face of her mother.

“I want to start by clearing some things up as my mother continues to talk about me despite me requesting her to stop speaking of me publically”, Sidney started her message, mentioning that she had been asking her mother since the beginning of the show, Rea Housewives of Orange County, to not talk about her and yet she did. Barney then revealed that the reason she left her mother’s house was because she did not want to put up with her mother’s abuse and neglectful behaviour. She details that Tamra was leaving her and her siblings at home with no food in the fridge or were simply ignoring them.

“She constantly put herself first and the biggest reason was that she was mentally and emotionally abusive”, Barney added. “My mom has been portraying the innocent erased mother whose daughter was estranged from her due to divorce and an evil ex husband”, when, in reality, she explains, [Tamra] is the sole reason why I do not want her in my life and will not have a relationship with her.”

Barney concluded that the estrangement between the two is the only spice in her mother’s life on the small screen and her fame depends on making a subject out of this.

In Tamra’s defence jumped the grandma, who said her daughter never neglected her children.

Now, it was Tamra’s turn to respond to Sidney’s accusations. After talking about how wonderful the Aruba vacation was, she dove into the drama surrounding the subject. She first thanked her mother for standing up for her. Then she wrote: “I love my daughter and I would NEVER abuse, hurt or neglect her in any way.” She continued: “I ask that you do not send Sidney negative messages or comments, direct them at me if feel the need. Thank you for all your love and support #godhasthisinhishands.”


Tamra Judge denies daughter’s accusations as she asks fans: “Do not send Sidney negative messages or comments, direct them at me if feel the need. .”


The messages have been deleted since the, but Barney says she doesn’t know what happened, as she did not delete her post. “Not sure why my Facebook post was deleted. i’m not sure if i was hacked again or if it was flagged. Trying to get that back up”, she tweeted earlier today.


Sidney has pinned a post of her mother promising not to make a scene or take photos at her graduation and then doing the exact opposite.